Our youngest "baby" daughter has birthday today!
4 already. We have a beautiful day. Time is flying brothers and sisters!
Thursday, 27 May 2010
Tuesday, 25 May 2010
Ego free, healthy and hapy kids kids and how to learn from them
A very good friend of our family, who is an amazing talented writer just was sending us this article.
And because we are so touched and inspired, we want to share it with all of you!
What do you think about it? Post your comment down below!
EGO FREE KIDS
A friend of mine has his own tv show on the internet . it’s called The Raw Inspiriation tv. you’d imagine that someone who does that has a big ego. but actually the contrary is true. intuitively i would say that he has dissolved a significant chunk of his ego... i don’t know his wife, but have met her a few times, and i’d say she has evolved to a similar level.
what is interesting is that they have three children, and are soon to have four. i have only met a couple of his children for a very short time, but i was really struck by how magical they are. his daughter, especially, aged three, is like a beacon, streaming out divine light into the world. she just sits there and beams. she’s probably the most extraordinary child i’ve ever come across.
i am therefore concluding that one of the ways in which the awakening of consciousness is going to happen is through parents dissolving their egos, and children simply not devleoping them in the first place to the same extent.
the ego is a false self, a false personality or identity (or, more accurately a basket of identities) which we think is us. instead of just being part of the world like, say, a tree or a badger. animals don’t have egos.
our egos develop as children, in response to our parents egos. if a child were brought up by an animal - like romulus and remus were apparently brought up by a wolf - then they would, theoretically, have very little or no ego. although perhaps the collective human pysche would still exert its influence, because the process of the dissolution of the ego is a collective one.
but certainly if the egos pf parents are partially dissolved, then i think children will will simply not develop big egos in the first place. they won’t see themselves as being so separate from the world. they will feel more connected to the natural world, more connected to other people, more connected to themselves, their passion and creativity. they will also accept WHAT IS much more... they won’t spend their lives unconsciously resisting the world... as the rest of us do.
in my awakened state last week, one of my main resistances to awakening was the resistance to giving up fighting the world... as opposed to accepting whatever comes my way. in my awakened state i could see that there was no point fighting anything, and everything was perfect as it was
what i momentarily gave up, for a few hours, was my resistance to total peace.
imagine if your parents were operating from this perspective, and so you automatically accepted whatever came along, as perfect. imagine if millions of people start to let go of their egos. their separate identities, and all of those people have lots of children.... the world will indeed be transformed.
blessed be.
Written by Sapphire de la terre
read more amazing articles from her at
www.aphroditespeaks.wordpress.com
And because we are so touched and inspired, we want to share it with all of you!
What do you think about it? Post your comment down below!
EGO FREE KIDS
A friend of mine has his own tv show on the internet . it’s called The Raw Inspiriation tv. you’d imagine that someone who does that has a big ego. but actually the contrary is true. intuitively i would say that he has dissolved a significant chunk of his ego... i don’t know his wife, but have met her a few times, and i’d say she has evolved to a similar level.
what is interesting is that they have three children, and are soon to have four. i have only met a couple of his children for a very short time, but i was really struck by how magical they are. his daughter, especially, aged three, is like a beacon, streaming out divine light into the world. she just sits there and beams. she’s probably the most extraordinary child i’ve ever come across.
i am therefore concluding that one of the ways in which the awakening of consciousness is going to happen is through parents dissolving their egos, and children simply not devleoping them in the first place to the same extent.
the ego is a false self, a false personality or identity (or, more accurately a basket of identities) which we think is us. instead of just being part of the world like, say, a tree or a badger. animals don’t have egos.
our egos develop as children, in response to our parents egos. if a child were brought up by an animal - like romulus and remus were apparently brought up by a wolf - then they would, theoretically, have very little or no ego. although perhaps the collective human pysche would still exert its influence, because the process of the dissolution of the ego is a collective one.but certainly if the egos pf parents are partially dissolved, then i think children will will simply not develop big egos in the first place. they won’t see themselves as being so separate from the world. they will feel more connected to the natural world, more connected to other people, more connected to themselves, their passion and creativity. they will also accept WHAT IS much more... they won’t spend their lives unconsciously resisting the world... as the rest of us do.
in my awakened state last week, one of my main resistances to awakening was the resistance to giving up fighting the world... as opposed to accepting whatever comes my way. in my awakened state i could see that there was no point fighting anything, and everything was perfect as it was
what i momentarily gave up, for a few hours, was my resistance to total peace.
imagine if your parents were operating from this perspective, and so you automatically accepted whatever came along, as perfect. imagine if millions of people start to let go of their egos. their separate identities, and all of those people have lots of children.... the world will indeed be transformed.
blessed be.
Written by Sapphire de la terre
read more amazing articles from her at
www.aphroditespeaks.wordpress.com
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